10 Daily Habits of Highly Successful Marriages (That Most Couples Ignore)
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10 Daily Habits of Highly Successful Marriages (That Most Couples Ignore)
Small things done daily can build a love that lasts a lifetime.
Marriage is based on the small things, not on big gestures. Our daily routines influence our communication, connection, and relationship's general well-being.
The reality? Most couples ignore these minor yet significant behaviors, and eventually, disconnection creeps in. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Here are 10 daily habits that highly successful couples practice (and that you can start today):
1. Give Each Other a Purposeful Greeting
Saying "hello" quickly isn't the same as stopping to say "I'm so glad to see you" and looking your spouse in the eyes.
✅ Develop the habit of giving each other a 10-second kiss or hug when you get back together; this increases oxytocin and intimacy.
2. Show Particular Appreciation
Say more than "Thanks." Say something like, "I appreciate you making dinner; it was just what I needed after a long day today."
✅ Why it works: Specific gratitude strengthens emotional security and helps your partner feel seen.
3. Check In Emotionally
Asking, "Did you pay the bill?" is something we excel at. but not, “How are you doing—are you ok?”
✅ Make time daily to talk about feelings, not just schedules. Ask: “What’s on your mind today?”
4. Putting Down the Phone When Having a Conversation
It’s tempting—but eye contact says “You matter to me.”
✅ Try phone-free zones: meals, bedtime, or 30 minutes of undivided attention each evening.
5. Share a Spiritual Moment Together
Whether you pray together, read scripture, or just pause in silence—inviting God into your day bonds you at the soul level.
✅ Even 2 minutes of shared prayer can bring peace and unity.
6. Have a Gentle Sense of Humor
Laughter lightens the load and is good for the soul. Playful teasing (done respectfully) builds connection and relieves tension.
✅ Inside jokes, memes, or simply being silly together creates joyful memories.
7. Believe in the Best Will
Because they are only human, your spouse most likely doesn't mean to offend you.
✅ Put this mentality into practice: "Perhaps they're stressed, not reckless." It prevents conflict before it starts.
8. Share a Micro-Goal
Working toward something together—even something small—keeps your bond active.
✅ Examples: Drinking more water, praying each morning, or reading a book together.
9. Apply Physical Contact, Even in Tiny Ways
Intimacy is not the only purpose of touch. Holding hands, squeezing shoulders, or putting a hand on the back all help to maintain the connection.
✅ Daily physical connection builds trust and comfort.
10. Don't End the Day Loosely; End it With Love.
Avoid going to bed upset or preoccupied. End the day peacefully, even if it was a difficult one.
✅ Say: “I love you. Let’s start fresh tomorrow.” That sentence alone can change everything.
Conclusion: Love Is Found in the Small Things Every Day
The most successful marriages are deliberate, not flawless. They are based on regular decisions to listen, respect, laugh, and develop as a team.
Your relationship doesn't have to be completely transformed in a day. Begin with one of these routines. Then include another.
Because love is a life we create, not a sensation we seek.